posted by L'abeille on Aug 29
That’s exactly what X-T would say every time I cook him a meal. Lately, my most common answer given would be, I’ve blogged about this before OR nah, today’s dinner is too simple to blog…every Minah, Ah Soh and Abu’s wife also cook these at home. Reason: Cooking is a form of art to him, the talent in fying a good omelet is a gift from God *shaking my head in disbelief*. So, a meal consist of ABC soup, stir fry veg and a meat dish can really…and i mean REALLY make him happy. Just imagine if he gets a surprise dinner of fajitas or his all time favourite red wine chicken stew. He melts… and again he’ll merrily singing “Don’t you want to take a picture?”. Geez…
I remember when we first met, the foodie photos I took was mostly 1/2 bitten, few spoonful swallowed or a nicely decorated dish shattered into pieces because I forgot to inform him earlier that I need a picture of that meal. After a few missed shots, he begun to pick up my bad habitsblogging habits and would ask… “Don’t want to take picture ar?” before he start to eat. :p
A pic of our 1/2 finished yogurt cucumber & red onion salad on a weekday dinner…
After 2 years..OH YES! We’re gonna celebrate our LAST anniversary as BFGF next weekend. I bet it’s gonna be fun because coincidentally, pre wedding shots will be taken on our anniversary and we’re gonna be at a resort away from the busy city, away from our lappy, away from blogging and obviously away from civilization. We’ll be meeting the lake, the trees, the gardens and hopefully some fresh air. I would already expect an inch thick of chemicals covering my face a.k.a cosmetics, crowned with gel and hair clips the entire day. X-T will be REALLY sweaty as he wears a tux under the hot scorching sun! In fact, we’ll be there for the night and obviously we’re gonna have our anniversary dinner there too. Got candlenight dinner or not…I’m not too sure but definitely, I’ll bring along my insect repellent! We’ll share more about our photo session when we return next week..okey? *winks*
A picture of me serving of rosemary grilled chicken with pesto fettuccine. *hand’s shaking..too hungry* X-T said “take picture..take picture”
NEXT year, the time ticker at the corner of our blog will be back to day ZERO and the countdown to our 1st wedding anniversary will begin. Eh, do you know that traditionally, gifts in a form of PAPER were given to each other on the first wedding anniversary? FYI, 2nd year would be in a form of cotton.. Being the practical HIM, I bet he’s gonna give me a bag of toilet paper on our first and a bag of sanitary facial cottonon our second haha! I’m not hinting to him now, I just gotta know my fiance doesn’t read my blog…he only look at the photos! So I can say what I want in smaller fonts and BIGGER pictures..yay..yay!
So, next year, we’ll be staying together as a family. There will be more to endure enjoy, exploring the unknown areas in our lives and I bet it will be more than just enduring my ’snap pic before eating’ habits and my eating habits.
A simple meal of Chili spiced chic strips with lemon & herb couscous & yogurt cucumber salad with onion.
For example, when X-T and I first met, he used to call me a “rabbit” due to my habit of having mostly meatless meals. He was brought up eating wholesome meaty meals with white rice *A MUST I would say*. Talkabout couples from two different backgrounds and entirely different way of upbringing. After a while, where more vege & less meat were also served on HIS plate, he got used to it already.
I picked up a few habits from X-T too during our courting days. Well, I begin to learn that a healthy car engine is far MORE important compared to a clean car exterior and 4 sparkling rims for my case. Always making sure the engine is in good condition is a big issue for him. Next, I spend lesser when I’m with him because he pays for my shoppinghe can easily differentiate between “wants” and “needs”. Of course, occasionally, he plunge on the ‘wants’ but that’s all because of the evil me and it’s gonna be a different story for another day. Heh!
120 days to go before we enter into a brand new journey together, more habits to compromise, to adjust and to fit into each other’s life and I’m sure there’s more to learn from each other. Who said marriage is all about spice, sugar and everything nice?!
Hey you..have a great Merdeka weekend ya!


























